Comments on: The Philippines as an Open Pussy Country http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/ Upang magising ang inaantok na kamalayan Mon, 06 Sep 2010 04:46:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: stoneybert http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/comment-page-1/#comment-31973 stoneybert Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:04:27 +0000 http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/#comment-31973 ang sagwa kc sa mga pinoy pag nakaapak sa bayan ng puti o kahit saan mang bansa ay ipokrito, tagalugin mo english isasagot...pag talo sa casino saka mag tatagalog... we travel to become slaves,,they travel to tour......thats the hard truth ang sagwa kc sa mga pinoy pag nakaapak sa bayan ng puti o kahit saan mang bansa ay ipokrito, tagalugin mo english isasagot…pag talo sa casino saka mag tatagalog… we travel to become slaves,,they travel to tour……thats the hard truth

]]> By: john http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/comment-page-1/#comment-29812 john Tue, 17 Nov 2009 12:41:00 +0000 http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/#comment-29812 filipina women are the best in the world in my opinion. they will love a guy, if you treat them right and are nice to them it just takes time, but overtime most filipina women will really love u if you are a guy who respects and appreciates them. they will take care of your emotional and physical needs. i think any man who is nice to a filipina will have the best of luck but especially foreign men in the philippines, no matter what color of the skin filipina women are the best in the world in my opinion. they will love a guy, if you treat them right and are nice to them

it just takes time, but overtime most filipina women will really love u if you are a guy who respects and appreciates them.

they will take care of your emotional and physical needs.

i think any man who is nice to a filipina will have the best of luck

but especially foreign men in the philippines, no matter what color of the skin

]]> By: Jon Limjap http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/comment-page-1/#comment-23826 Jon Limjap Wed, 24 Dec 2008 10:09:06 +0000 http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/#comment-23826 Dan, I know a lot of relationships exactly like yours; Filipinas married to white guys, wherein there is a real, fruitful and meaningful relationship, yet looked down upon by various people. It's really unfair that they said those things about her -- as far as I know, even for dating-site type relationships, most Filipinas tended to be faithful and stuck it out with their husbands. Of course there will still be bad eggs in the basket, and there are cases wherein Filipina women scammed their white husbands. The way your wife's relatives treat her is, indeed, deplorable, but an unfortunate idiosyncrasy of our culture is having "luckier" members of the family support the "less fortunate" ones, which sadly only leads to mendicancy and a lost sense of responsibility. Dan,

I know a lot of relationships exactly like yours; Filipinas married to white guys, wherein there is a real, fruitful and meaningful relationship, yet looked down upon by various people. It’s really unfair that they said those things about her — as far as I know, even for dating-site type relationships, most Filipinas tended to be faithful and stuck it out with their husbands.

Of course there will still be bad eggs in the basket, and there are cases wherein Filipina women scammed their white husbands.

The way your wife’s relatives treat her is, indeed, deplorable, but an unfortunate idiosyncrasy of our culture is having “luckier” members of the family support the “less fortunate” ones, which sadly only leads to mendicancy and a lost sense of responsibility.

]]> By: Dan Barfield http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/comment-page-1/#comment-23812 Dan Barfield Tue, 23 Dec 2008 18:01:58 +0000 http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/#comment-23812 I really object to the Philippines being referred to as an "open pussy" country, although I do understand why. Just as I object to all of the sexual websites that exploit young Filipinas and give rise to such an implication. you see, I am a "Kano" married to a Filipina and such things cheapen our marriage in the eyes of many people. And yes, we met on a chat site. And yes, she is much younger than I. But we chatted, emailed, and telephoned for over a year before I could save enough money to visit the R.P. Then almost another year before I could save enough money to have her come to the States......I am not rich! We have had our ups and downs these few years, as all couples do.Everyone siad that she will leave me when she gets her "green card." Then they said she will leave me when she gets her citizenship. I am still not rich and we both work.She has her green card and her citizenship. And we are still together simply because we love each other, respect each other, and are happy together. However, the only thorn is her relatives who are never in contact except when they need/want money. They treat her like an ATM machine, which hurts her and infuriates me! I really object to the Philippines being referred to as an “open pussy” country, although I do understand why. Just as I object to all of the sexual websites that exploit young Filipinas and give rise to such an implication.
you see, I am a “Kano” married to a Filipina and such things cheapen our marriage in the eyes of many people. And yes, we met on a chat site. And yes, she is much younger than I. But we chatted, emailed, and telephoned for over a year before I could save enough money to visit the R.P. Then almost another year before I could save enough money to have her come to the States……I am not rich!

We have had our ups and downs these few years, as all couples do.Everyone siad that she will leave me when she gets her “green card.” Then they said she will leave me when she gets her citizenship. I am still not rich and we both work.She has her green card and her citizenship. And we are still together simply because we love each other, respect each other, and are happy together.
However, the only thorn is her relatives who are never in contact except when they need/want money. They treat her like an ATM machine, which hurts her and infuriates me!

]]> By: You Won the Lottery? Here’s Some Advice | Basapa http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/comment-page-1/#comment-19186 You Won the Lottery? Here’s Some Advice | Basapa Wed, 09 Apr 2008 03:06:17 +0000 http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/#comment-19186 [...] we live in a country, where some deemed it fit to equate a Filipina marrying a caucasian male as some sort of semi-jackpot, prompting some relatives to line up to her [...] [...] we live in a country, where some deemed it fit to equate a Filipina marrying a caucasian male as some sort of semi-jackpot, prompting some relatives to line up to her [...]

]]> By: Jon Limjap http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/comment-page-1/#comment-16011 Jon Limjap Sun, 11 Nov 2007 20:46:35 +0000 http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/#comment-16011 Ato, Oo, tama ang iyong spelling. Hehehe. Ato,

Oo, tama ang iyong spelling. Hehehe.

]]> By: Ato Kenny http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/comment-page-1/#comment-15995 Ato Kenny Sun, 11 Nov 2007 15:34:46 +0000 http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/#comment-15995 The pinay who flirts and catches a husband not for love's sake but for financial improvement becomes a heroine to the family. She is a "savior." What better feeling can one wish than being a "martyr" to the family? And, a martyr wearing Prada! (Tama ba yong spelling ko? P-r-a-d-a?) The pinay who flirts and catches a husband not for love’s sake but for financial improvement becomes a heroine to the family. She is a “savior.” What better feeling can one wish than being a “martyr” to the family? And, a martyr wearing Prada! (Tama ba yong spelling ko? P-r-a-d-a?)

]]> By: Antonio http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/comment-page-1/#comment-15156 Antonio Thu, 11 Oct 2007 04:50:44 +0000 http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/#comment-15156 Well that means we Pinoy guys should start snagging some more foreign pussy!!! Let alone when a bride shortage starts happening... Well that means we Pinoy guys should start snagging some more foreign pussy!!! Let alone when a bride shortage starts happening…

]]> By: Plaridel Today http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/comment-page-1/#comment-15085 Plaridel Today Mon, 08 Oct 2007 07:24:34 +0000 http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/#comment-15085 Sadly, this perception is very unfair to Filipinas. However, it should be noted that sexual stereotyping goes on all over the world and between and within all kinds of cultures. Tthe phrase "Swedish blonde," for example, has connotations that go far beyond the merely descriptive in an Anglo-American context. In Japan, party girls are derisively called "Yellow Cabs," for their alleged penchant for picking up foreign "passengers." In general, across cultures, "Northerners" are considered sexually restrained while "Southerners" are often viewed as sexually relaxed. And so forth. In addition, there is this whole business of sex-to-sex and boss-to-employee power relationships that exists everywhere. Just look at the number of American sitcoms where this crops up. There is also the undeniable lure of the exotic (i.e. interracial dating), which, frankly speaking, is merely a human trait. Finally, since I am Pinoy, one last observation. We do have a tendency as a people to overdramatize and self-flagellate. While I am not advocating self-censorship, can we please have a little collective sangfroid? Honesty does not mean that we make a soap opera out of every problem. Stiff upper lip and all that sort of thing, eh? Sadly, this perception is very unfair to Filipinas. However, it should be noted that sexual stereotyping goes on all over the world and between and within all kinds of cultures. Tthe phrase “Swedish blonde,” for example, has connotations that go far beyond the merely descriptive in an Anglo-American context. In Japan, party girls are derisively called “Yellow Cabs,” for their alleged penchant for picking up foreign “passengers.” In general, across cultures, “Northerners” are considered sexually restrained while “Southerners” are often viewed as sexually relaxed. And so forth. In addition, there is this whole business of sex-to-sex and boss-to-employee power relationships that exists everywhere. Just look at the number of American sitcoms where this crops up. There is also the undeniable lure of the exotic (i.e. interracial dating), which, frankly speaking, is merely a human trait. Finally, since I am Pinoy, one last observation. We do have a tendency as a people to overdramatize and self-flagellate. While I am not advocating self-censorship, can we please have a little collective sangfroid? Honesty does not mean that we make a soap opera out of every problem. Stiff upper lip and all that sort of thing, eh?

]]> By: Jon Limjap http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/comment-page-1/#comment-12761 Jon Limjap Fri, 20 Jul 2007 05:07:01 +0000 http://blog.kapenilattex.com/2007/06/04/the-philippines-as-an-open-pussy-country/#comment-12761 torn "extreme poverty, lack of economic opportunities, and, yes, a bit of a colonial mentality—circumstances such as those you describe become almost inevitable" Perhaps they are mere victims of circumstance, but to see one's self as a mere victim of circumstance is, I believe, part of the overall problem. Poor bloke that Lord... hopefully the girl he eventually went for loved him sincerely. I wonder what happened to the other girl though... :) torn

“extreme poverty, lack of economic opportunities, and, yes, a bit of a colonial mentality—circumstances such as those you describe become almost inevitable”

Perhaps they are mere victims of circumstance, but to see one’s self as a mere victim of circumstance is, I believe, part of the overall problem.

Poor bloke that Lord… hopefully the girl he eventually went for loved him sincerely. I wonder what happened to the other girl though… :)

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